Road Trip Tips for Summer (or anytime of the year)
June 23, 2010 by screweduptexan
Filed under family, feature
Summer is fast approaching and with that means road trips and camping–or maybe it means you want to take a road trip or go camping, but something is keeping you back.
Namely your kids.
Or rather, namely your chief fear of taking children along for the ride and adventure…which can be a scary proposition indeed.
But it doesn’t have to be!
My little ones, ages five, six, and seven, have gone on road trips and camping with us since I was pregnant with them. I’ll be the first to admit that caring for a child while inside of me is a lot easier and less stressful than taking care of it after I’ve given birth to it, but with a few quick pointers I think anyone can have a fun and enjoyable time vacationing with small children.
Pee stops, whining, and “are we there yets” included.
You think I’m kidding right?
Well you’re wrong.
Maybe.
Let’s begin with road trips.
The most important thing to remember while driving for any type of long distance (one-and-a-half hours is a long distance for a child) is comfort. If you can keep your child’s relative comfort in check, it will go a long way for both you and your child. While you can’t totally eliminate whining, pee stops, and annoying questions, you can drastically cut down on the number of occurrences by following these simple measures:
- Plan accordingly–know where rest stops, scenic overlooks, and Walmarts are. Even if you hate Walmart. Why Walmart? Because Walmart is everywhere and has everything.
- Keep the sun out of your child’s face.
- Stock up on formula, water, and clean bottles/nipples if you are traveling with a baby.
- If breastfeeding, well dang you’re just lucky. Breast pads and nipple cream?
- If the child is eating semi-solid to solid food, bring extra baby food jars or dinners with you. My favorites were the kinds that needed no refrigeration or preparation that I could use in a jam.
- STOP to eat or feed a child. Rest stops and scenic overlooks are great opportunities for you and your children to get out and stretch your legs and/or clean up.
- Bring extra diapers and wipes–in fact more than you think you need–and change that kid’s diaper. Again, rest stops and scenic overlooks are great places to do this (just don’t spoil the view).
- For each day stuck in a vehicle, bring two extra pairs of clean clothes and underwear for ages 2 and under and one extra pair over the age of two. Dress your kid in the ugliest outfit first, and arrive in nicest if visiting family or friends. Why? Because spills, spitups and blowouts happen.
- Bring a comfort item from home–this could mean a favorite blankie, a doll, a pacifier, or in my youngest’s case a string to put in his nose.
- Pillow for older kids to rest their sleepy heads on.
- Blanket to keep them warm (the warmer they are the sleepier they are).
The second most important thing to remember for road trips is distraction. That’s right, keep that kid occupied and you’ll be less likely to pull your hair out at the end of the day:
- DVD players anyone?
- Favorite toys (keep to three maximum for older children). Suggestions: Cars, dolls, rattlers, stuffed animals, balls, action heroes, play thing that straps to a seat for infants, and more.
- Simple games like goldfish, battleship, connect the dots, checkers, chess, etc. Keep these games in a designated box or tote.
- Silent distractions: Books, crosswords, puzzles, etch-a-sketch, coloring book with nine crayons, doodling pad. Keep these distractions in the same box with the toys.
- Road games like ABC, license plates, and I Spy, cost nothing.
- Snacks.
- Headphone and a music playing device.
I highly recommend not traveling for more than eight hours in one single day if your trip is going to take longer than fourteen hours. This means that if it typically takes you all morning, afternoon, and evening to get to grandma’s house, then start traveling at 8 am the day before and stop for the day at 4 pm. Do this twice unless camping or hotels are out of the question. Yes, this means that your usual one day trip now takes two days, but I promise you that it will be worth it in the end. I live in the Dallas area and it takes me 24 hours of straight driving to visit my husband’s family who live in central Utah. We used to travel all day non-stop, but last year we got smart and spread the road trip over four days while camping for the night. We were all much more relaxed, happy, and less stressed when we arrived at our destination.
If you are just attempting road tripping, travel no longer than two hours from your home to test things out the first time. Go to a historic place, a state park, a hike, the lake, or even a museum for the day.
Anyone else hitting the road this summer with the family?
How do you manage to navigate the interstates, highways and dusty trails of our great nation with kids in tow?
Botanical Gardens – Fort Worth
May 26, 2010 by Texasholly
Filed under To Do in DFW, activities, feature
The Fort Worth Botanical Gardens has an amazing boardwalk learning trail for children.
It is tucked inside the first Botanical Garden exit (the one closest to 30).
When you see the big log, you are close.
The “log” is actually made of concrete and large enough for a whole group of children to play.
Just beyond the log is the entrance to the boardwalk.
All along the raised trail are learning stations where kids can learn about plants, animals, insects, birds and whether trees poop.
Because the entire trail is high, children can peek through the wire rails at everything below.
Just beyond the boardwalk is a really pretty Lilly pond. I am happy to report that no one ended up in the middle of it on this trip.
We saved the water fun for this action-initiated fountain in one of the prettiest corners of the Botanical Gardens.
Everyone goes home wet, worn out and happy.
The amazing thing is that we have only scratched the surface of things to see at the Fort Worth Botanical Gardens, but that is all we needed today. We will save the rest for another adventure.
Spice Up Staycation with Cheap, Creative Thrills
May 21, 2010 by Julie Blair
Filed under Best Of, To Do in DFW, feature, fun
You aimed to rent a beach house the Big Island this summer for your family, but alas, the economy has downsized your plans to include only cold showers at home.
That said, you and your kids can substitute a costly vacation with a smashing “staycation” here in Texas. All it takes is a little imagination and perhaps some phone calls. And just think: You’ll have the luxury of your own washing machine, which, when enjoyed with a frosty margarita, is a beautiful thing.
Here are ten things you can do locally when the weather heats up.
Send your children to “Mom Camp.” Invite four or five parents to form a co-op for a week-long “camp.” Each adult takes one day then plans and oversees a themed play date for a four-hour block of time. Each day includes a craft using recycled household goods, traditional games like hide-and-seek, outdoor free play, a story borrowed from the library and a snack. Consider themes like “the ocean,” “outer space,” “circus,” or “summer.” For inspiration on crafts and games, see www.familyfun.com. Budget: $30 per kid.
Spend a week rating ice cream parlors. Take your kids to sample the wares of our community’s ice cream shops. Have your children draw up a chart then assign points to each shop for their store’s variety, product quality, atmosphere, etc. Then, have your foodies write a review of the stores. (If they don’t have the endurance to write yet, you can play secretary for them.) Budget: $25 per kid.
Host a spontaneous bike parade. Invite the neighborhood clan over to decorate their bikes and trikes then peddle the creations through the streets for their adoring fans (ie. parents). Use recycled Christmas ribbon, latex balloons, old toilet paper rolls, streamers and other craft box floatsome and jetsome to personalize every ride. Designate one child to carry the boom box to broadcast summer tunes. Non-riders can carry pom-poms, twirl batons or march. Budget: $1 per kid.
Design a puppet show. Put all those lonesome socks hanging out in the laundry room to use by making hand puppets. Use paper, pompoms, yard, etc. to decorate each character. No puppet stage? No worries: Have your children stand on the couch and raise their hands above their heads to display their puppets. Take the show further by making tickets and selling popcorn. Budget: Free.
Create an outdoor kids’ museum. String an old sheet up on a laundry line and fill spray bottles with watered down tempra paint. Have your children spray the sheet to make innovative designs. Warning: The paint will sprinkle the kids, so be sure to have everyone wear old clothing. Bonus: When the project is done, have everyone run through the hose then leap into the swimming pool or a warm mid-day bath. Budget: $5 per kid.
Take advantage of free trials. Sample classes at local gyms like WinKids, Gymboree, the Little Gym and Excite as well as dance studios all of which offer complimentary trials. Your kids will get exercise in an air-conditioned environment, you’ll get an hour off duty, the hosts will receive free publicity when you tell your pals how much fun you all had. Budget: Free.
Help lost animals. Many of the area’s shelters welcome children who can gently pet wayward dogs and cats in an attempt to keep them socialized. This is a great opportunity to discuss the idea of “home” with children, the concept of adoption and the importance of volunteering. Be careful, though. If you get too involved in the project you might bring home a beagle. Budget: Free, but donation recommended.
Strive for a strike. Even three-year-olds get a kick out of pushing a big, black bowling ball down the wooden lane if there are bumpers to help guide it. Older kids will enjoy putting their Wii skills to use in a real-world adventure. You will get a kick out of remembering high school as Belinda Carlisle and the Go-Gos sing “Vacation” while you slide across the floors in those killer sueded shoes. We like AMF in Lewisville for their less-expensive rates and retro feel. Budget: $10 per kid.
Roll with it. Once you’ve mastered bowling, your ready for roller skating. At Interskate Roller Rink in Lewisville, your little ones can get their sea legs atop four-wheeled skates in a special tyke rink that includes guard rails. This hidden gem even offers a live DJ who takes requests. They might even play “Fruit Salad” by The Wiggles if you bring your own CD. Budget: $3 per kid on Bargain Night plus skate rental. Check www.interskate.net for coupons and free skate nights.
Request a tour. It is amazing how many local businesses provide educational tours of their facilities if you simply ask nicely and/or beg. Pull together a group of five playmates and visit the city’s recycling plant, the Great Harvest Bread Company, a local shoe cobbler, Grapevine’s glass blowing studio or the DFW airport where gearheads will enjoy riding the trams from terminal to terminal. Most intriguing is a trip to Flower Mound’s lone alpaca farm called Nana’s Pacas where Nana and her husband will teach you about on the cousin of the llama. They’ll let you pet the animals and show samples of the goodies that alpaca fur makes. Budget: Treasures or treats cost up to $20 per kid.
Julie Blair is a freelance journalist based in the Dallas area. She loves to roller skate with her four-year-old twins. Her personal blog can be found at: www.chocolatecoveredpajamas.blogspot.com.
What is YOUR favorite staycation activity?
Mission: Impossible – Nature Challenge 2010
May 19, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under To Do in DFW, cheap, free & easy, feature
YOUR MISSION…SHOULD YOU CHOOSE TO ACCEPT IT:
EXPLORE THE NATURE OF NORTH CENTRAL TEXAS THIS SUMMER WITH YOUR FAMILY!
What a great idea!
The Trinity River Audubon Center is one of the hosts of the Nature Challenge 2010. Sign your whole family up as a team and then set out to accomplish your mission – visit as many participating parks and nature areas in North Central Texas as you can in 11 weeks. From their website, “You will view native wildlife, dip your feet in creeks, rivers, and draw and write about your observations while learning more about nature and science in your neighborhood! At each site you will complete activities designed for family fun and nature exploration provided in English and Spanish.”
Opening Ceremonies take place this Saturday, May 22nd at the Trinity River Audubon Center in Dallas, 10:00 – 2:00. Closing Ceremonies will be on Saturday, August 14th at the River Legacy Living Science Center in Arlington.
Click HERE to register your family for the Nature Challenge 2010!
See you there!
Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area
May 10, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under DFW North, To Do in DFW, feature
As Environmental Chairman for the Greater Lewisville Early Childhood PTA, I had an outing scheduled for today for the children to go on a nature scavenger hunt at the Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area (LLELA). I thought about cancelling it because it was 40 degrees outside which seemed a little cold to go on a nature walk with little children. But I talked to some of the moms who had signed up and many were still excited about going so I bundled Rachel all up and we headed out.
The scavenger hunt was awesome! Most of the children attending were in the range of 18 months – 4 years old and it was a great activity for this age group. We had laminated sheets with pictures of what we were supposed to find and dry erase markers to circle the items once we found them.
I love our trail guide because she “planted” some cool items along the trails in advance just so the children could find some really interesting items.
We found colorful leaves, animal burrows, coyote jaw bones, turkey feathers, turtle shells…
…deer antlers…
…grasshoppers…
…coyote and raccoon tracks in the mud…
…flowers…
…evergreen trees.
We saw Lake Lewisville…
…and an original log cabin from the 1860s…
I’m so proud of our group of moms and kiddos. We spent about an hour and a half on our nature walk and had a great time despite the cold temperatures.
Even though Rachel spent the whole time in the stroller, she was worn out and fell asleep on the way home.
LLELA is open to the public on the weekends. You can hike on three trails, camp, canoe, picnic, birdwatch, or just enjoy spending time with nature.
Project BudBurst
April 15, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under To Do in DFW, feature
Yesterday we were walking home from school. Nicholas had to get out a little prerequisite running in celebration of the start of Spring Break.
But after that was out of his system, he settled down and picked a dandelion flower from someone’s yard. Then he picked another dandelion flower that was more in full bloom. He said he had a neat idea and started looking around in this person’s yard for more dandelions. He found just what he wanted, a set of dandelion buds that had not yet bloomed. He showed me the flowers and was all excited to explain that he had started a collection of each stage of the dandelion’s bloom.
Well, the collection wasn’t really complete until he also picked the full dandelion in seed form ready to blow away.
I love the way his mind works and that he not only understands the process of a plant life cycle so well but also that he gets excited about it. But what is absolutely fascinating to me about this story is just an hour earlier, I was at home researching citizen science projects that we could participate in when I ran across a project that perfectly mirrors what he just collected on his own. Project BudBurst engages the public in making careful observations of plant life cycles (phenophases) such as first leafing, first flower, and first fruit ripening of a diversity of trees, shrubs, flowers, and grasses in their local area. As a citizen scientist, you collect this information on plants in your area and then report the data back to the Project where they collaborate your findings with those from other citizen scientists from around the country.
I love citizen science projects because they are usually very kid-friendly and a great way to teach little ones about their environment. We have done several citizen science projects in which we monitor and report on birds that we see in our backyard. But this plant project is a new one for us and it sounds like fun. Project BudBurst has a Simple 5 Step process to participate. Their website even includes a Grades K-6 Facilitator Guide and a Teacher’s Guide.
When we made it home, Nicholas had to hide behind the van like he often does so I have to come looking for him. There isn’t a minute that goes by in this boy’s life when he isn’t wanting to play!
Then he put his dandelion collection with his ever-growing collection of nature treasures outside the front door and we recorded our dandelion findings for Project BudBurst.
A Homemade Jet Pack
March 23, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under family, feature
He said I had to get pictures of all the different sides…
Notice the “fire” shooting out of the jets in the back? BLAST OFF!
We Built Leprechaun Traps
March 16, 2010 by Stir Frequently
Filed under family, feature
Everything is coming up Green at our house.
Then the “bait” must be set.
Lego Mania!
February 24, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under To Do in DFW, feature
The Lewisville library has a special event for little builders. It’s called Lego Mania! We recently stopped by to check it out. We were a little late so everyone was already absorbed in their creations but Nicholas quickly found the table with the cool Star Wars Lego pieces and went to work building.
It was neat watching the boys at the table. None of the boys seem to know each other and they were each building their own ships yet for the most part they would help each other find particular pieces that each other needed. It was a great experience in teamwork.
Lego Mania! is held on the fourth Sunday of each month at 2:00. There are tons of Legos as well as Duplo blocks from younger children. And best of all – it’s FREE! The Lewisville Library is located at 1197 West Main in Lewisville and their phone number is 972-219-3570.
Homemade Butter
February 19, 2010 by BlessedinTexas
Filed under eat, feature
Cold and rainy days mean staying indoors. Unfortunately, that makes some of us a little stir crazy. So I’m always on the lookout for fun activities for my little ones that might just happen to also provide a little teaching along the way. Recently we made homemade butter. Stuart looked at me funny when I told him this. “You did what?” Yep, homemade butter.
I talked to Nicholas a little bit about how butter is made. I explained that basically you start with heavy cream and mix it up until it becomes butter. The cream is full of little fat globules but they are all separate and lonely. Once the mixing starts, fat globule Bob bumps into fat globule Joe and they become friends so they stick together. As more mixing happens, they bump into fat globule Mike and fat globule Tom and they all decide to stick together. The little group of friends keep bumping into more fat globules until everyone is stuck together and they have a big party. And then you have butter. Nicholas loved the story and couldn’t wait to start mixing up some cream.
We do have this cool antique churn that we could have used.
But it just sits on top of our kitchen cabinets. It’s gotten a bit dirty and dusty over the years and I don’t really know if I could ever clean those wooden paddles enough to feel good about eating anything made with them. However, it was neat to be able to show this to Nicholas and explain how it was used in olden days.
Our project was a bit different. All we used were some clean baby food jars, a few glass marbles, heavy whipping cream, music, and manpower.
Nicholas started with filling the jars about 3/4 full of cream.
He added two marbles to help with mixing and put the lid on. I double checked to make sure that the lid was on REALLY tight. Then we put on some fun music and we danced around while we shaking the jars. It doesn’t really matter how you shake them or how hard you shake them but you need to keep them moving.
It’s best to do this with two people so you can trade off and let your arm rest. After 5 minutes, he had a nice whipped topping.
Then around 10 minutes, we could hear a more distinct “thud” sound as a ball of butter was now shaking around in the jar. There was still a lot of liquid that we drained off but in the end we had real butter. It tasted fine right out of the jar but we added a pinch of salt just to make it better.
It was yummy on crackers for an after school snack. Nicholas suggested that we should have repeated our homemade cracker project so we could have had homemade butter AND homemade crackers. Great idea but I recall that I wasn’t too impressed with our homemade crackers. I think I’ll stick with store bought crackers but the homemade butter is a winner.
























